Major Arcana in a Love Reading
Did you know the cards can reveal a deeper connection or a time to follow your heart? And even if it is time for you to step up and end the relationship…
A huge factor in our well-being is our relationships with others. One of the most influence relationships is that of our love life, whether you are looking for some one, or are in a committed long-term relationship. When performing a relationship reading, the major arcana tarot card meanings will bring extreme insights. Let’s see what sound advice the major arcana cards have for us in a “love reading.”
Lovers: One Card Everyone Likes to See
This card represents a deeper connection is forming and stresses the need for balance as being crucial during this stage, this is where the need “advice” comes in. Internal balance is an absolute must before you can become one with another person. Being as “whole” as you can before you enter into a relationship and keeping emotionally independent, will allow for a deeper connection to enrich your every day life, rather than slowly suffocating you and your partner after the “honeymoon period” ends. Balance is the key to success, not being best friends with one another. You must be able to give one another space, and keep the masculine-feminine tension from fading away, or you will become roommates only.
The Fool is Often Wellcomed
It represents a new beginning and following your heart. Though it also tells of being naïve at times, so what advice does the “Fool” bring? Follow your heart, and do not be over analytical or picky. If you are looking for specific flaws, you will surely find them; after all, everybody has flaws. The “Fool” always tells you to be open and trust the other person until give a reason to do otherwise; you may get burned from time to time, but it’s only a way to move forward.
The Tower Brings a Nervous Glance or Two
Generally, the Tower tells about your life simply falling apart, but also about you rebuilding it from scratch. During the rebuilding process, you will become much more true to yourself. In terms of relationship advice, it is quite simple; if it is not working, change if yourself and do not just wait for some catastrophe to for your hand to do so.
Temperance Brings Common Advice…
… That is not listened to nearly enough. This card teaches about controlling your temper and learning to achieve things in harmony, instead of just using straightforward aggressive action no matter the conflict it creates. The advice you would give upon seeing this card would be along the lines of: do not say things out of anger, and do not drag old arguments into the mix; always listen and try to understand before you act.
Justice is About Trying to See Things How They Really Are…
…And without our ego getting in the way. The advice here, Justice brings the element to the relationship of not blaming your partner immediately. Instead, admit when you are wrong to both yourself and your partner.
The Magician is About Learning to Manipulate the World Around Us
Note that the Magician is also about becoming quite proficient at it; also it focuses on too much emphasis being placed on the short-term results while disregarding the other aspects of our lives. This makes us dangerously close to being thrown out of balance. The advice for this card when giving a relationship reading is simple: do not make winning your goal, and do not expect your partner to change, especially if you are trying to manipulate these changes.
Death Makes the Most Spectacular Entrance
And especially when showing up in a love reading. It simply tells us about ending of a life phase, while this ending is painful, it gives birth to a new phase of life. The advice here is to not mourn the ending about to occur, whether it is a breakup, divorce, or a dramatic change; instead accept the change and grow with it. If it is concerning a relationship termination that is long over due, then the advice is to not be afraid to make the first move in ending it, right now you are just pulled in by superficial safety and your known routine and habits.
The Devil Won’t Let You Be in Peace
The Devil tells you about the situation where everything should be find, but you are not at peace with it, and you keep messing with your shadows deep down inside. When it comes to a relationship reading, it could mean endlessly questioning whether or not he is the one, or if your feelings are real; this shows you that you must pull yourself away quickly, because your own inner insecurities will eat you alive if you do not.
There is the possibility you have another common problem, you are jealous to be the teeth. In which case the advice is very practical, recognize whether you have fallen into this trap and find a way to stop it, jealousy is a complete waste of your energy. If someone is not with you full heartedly, he has never been yours in the first place.
Remember, You Are One Half of Your Relationship
Tarot card readings can provide many great insights into a relationship. The major arcana cards talk about how you are doing deep inside. Since you are the one half of your relationship that you CAN influence, what major arcana cards say is of great importance when exploring a relationship problem or possibilities.